Parents behaviors will have a negative impact on the child’s next life. There are many difficult tasks in the world, one of the most difficult tasks is raising children. Most parents spend time with their children as they grow up and with all that care. Her dreams are full of dream mines: her children will fulfill their dreams one day as they grow, increasing their dignity in society.
When I plan so much, I want special care for the good of the child. Your food, sleep, health, education, marriage, is like a great sacrifice! All parents want their children to be happy and prosperous in the next life.
But family, family, psychological and economic factors also play important factors in the child’s education.
Therefore, it is often seen that, despite limited care and parental care, many children do not grow up to succeed in personal life. Again, despite being born into extreme deprivation, many children once found great success in crossing their own small boundaries.
However, is there no role in parental care in the child’s development? Of course, there is, but because of some parents’ daily misbehavior towards the child, that care may disappear, the child’s life may fail. However, let’s find out some of those misconducts.
1). Imposing authority
No parent wants their child to become a failed man. They always want your child to grow in security. Because it has a future ahead.
Thinking about safety is good, especially when you have children. So there is a real need for additional security.
But as a child grows, there is nothing like thinking about their safety. It is balanced behavior because as you get older, you learn to understand your own safety.
A young child can see fire, but as he grows older, he realizes that fire is dangerous. You don’t have to say, then, that there is danger in the fire! This is how the question of balance develops.
However, in reality, the way parents monitored their children at a young age continued to behave like children. They deal with hundreds of things like what to do or not to do, who to mix with, what to eat or not, what to wear or not. It is necessary for moderation.
But many parents also begin to interfere in the child’s personal life in the name of “safety.” They don’t want to understand, their children are growing. Something is developing in his own name, some of his dreams are being created, maybe he has a life goal like his. But in the name of so-called security, aren’t you making the child’s future miserable?
A study by the University of Tennessee showed that children who remain on strict safety sheets, even when they are young, undergo a more self-centered, overly conscious, and slightly collapsed phase in adulthood. Since he doesn’t develop the mindset of making decisions from a young age, he makes wrong decisions in the range. It lacks two important things like individuality and self-sufficiency. He has no confidence in himself like others. That affects his whole life.
But he needed to be taught how to make his own decisions. How to make personal likes and dislikes more effective mutual respect, the practice of embedded values. Then the child will always have the strength to become a completely successful person from his position.
2) Curses and Curses
Child abuse is a very common image in our society. It is true that parents are concerned about their children’s actions because they want it well.
When they are young, they will do mischief, depending on their nature or sport. So sometimes they can do something that is beyond your tolerance. Don’t you think a second time, “It has been a lot; today is one of my days”! This is what you say!
Many parents are addicted to cursing their children just a little bit. This is a very bad thing. You want the best for your child, then you get mad and say, “There is nothing you can do in life!” Try to Make Parents behaviors as well as good.
In essence, how a parent behaves towards the child often determines what the child will be like in the future. The child can be restrained. But are you chatting like this, or are you chatting like that?
Your spoken words can make you more stubborn without correcting it, creating emotional distances for the child with you, creating a mindset without consulting you. Such problems have come up time and time again in research.
3) To beat
There are many ways to discipline a child. But raising your hand on behalf of the regime won’t do your baby much good. In the developed world, excellent methods are used to teach children etiquette, focus on their studies, and make them obedient to their parents.
If the child does not want to listen, it is important to listen to his needs. Like the patient, he must also receive medications. This does not mean that it should be hit. Children are so weak in a physical structure that even the slightest hand can lead to serious physical injury; Similarly, due to the beating, the child’s mental world also suffers a major injury.
Once you will notice that your child is not revealing the things that he/she should naturally tell you. You may not notice the changes.
But it will carry this great change in your mind into the future. In the world of his images, you can become a true villain. You have to teach that children are not very good at controlling good and bad. And then it can teach you when it can become a symbol of child dependency.
Researchers at the University of Texas, in a nearly 50-year study of nearly 1.5 million children, found that children who were later physically punished did not adapt to the environment. Also, there are many cases of exhaustion, wrong decision making, engaging in criminal activities due to obstruction of perfect mental development. So control your parents behaviors and don’t beat your child.
4). Anesthesia is the use of electronic products.
Parents who are more inclined to electronic things later developmental problems in their children. Not being able to adapt to the changing environment, lack of attention, laziness, these children are trapped inside.
If the parents do not give the child enough time, it is too late for them to learn. Studies show that children whose parents are addicted to television, smartphones, take longer to develop their children’s language skills.
Parents behaviors must not only stay away from them but must ensure that children are away from them. Especially until they are two years old, they should stay away from televisions and smartphones. Children should also stay away from the combination of different languages, as their dysfunctional brains get stuck in it. The task of teaching the language is therefore slow and difficult.
The functioning of the brain of growing children depends on the amount of sleep they receive. Children who go to bed at the right time have more learning and attention capacity than those who go to bed at irregular times. A group of researchers in England recently published such information.
But in most families, there is no set time for children to sleep. This problem is especially frequent in our joint families. The living environment should be designed so that the baby does not have trouble sleeping.
To ensure that your child has a wonderful future, you must first know how to care for him. You have to reveal your realities and limitations in order to mentally prepare yourself to survive in a constantly changing world. The things he uses and teaches are the way to his next life.